When I was very small, I always wanted to grow up soon, so that I can make money and make my own decision. My parents were in charge of my everything, so I thought the only way to get out of their supervision is to become an adult soon. But I was wrong. The sign of growing up is to take the responsibility of what you do instead of aging. Nowadays, many adults have been called Big Baby, which means they are old enough as an adult, but they can’t take charge of their life. Especially for the person who counts on parents so much. So I need to learn to be independent and solve the problem by myself. When my parents see my ability, they will be happy to let me go. I believe that every parent wants their kids to be strong.

在我很小的时候，我总是希望能快点长大，这样我就可以赚钱，自己做决定。我的父母总是把我的一切都照料好，所以我认为离开他们的照顾是我尽快成为成年人的唯一方法。但我错了。成长的标志是对自己所做的事负责而不是年龄的增长。如今，有很多成年人被称为“巨婴”，这意思是尽管他们已经长大成人，但却不能照料好自己的生活。尤其是那些对父母过度依赖的人。所以我需要学会独立解决问题，当我的父母看到我的能力后，他们就会很高兴地让我独立。我相信每个父母都希望自己的孩子是坚强。